An adult child helping an aging parent plan to stay at home

Short answer: Most home safety problems for older adults come down to falls, fire and carbon monoxide, and being alone in an emergency. Walk the home room by room: clear trip hazards, add grab bars and railings, improve lighting, test smoke and CO alarms, and make sure your parent can call for help. In Western New York, add a winter plan for snow, ice, heat and power outages.

Use this alongside our broader aging in place checklist, which covers medications, routines and family coordination.

Entry, steps and walkways

  • Sturdy railings on both sides of outside steps
  • Bright exterior lighting, ideally motion-activated, at every entrance
  • Non-slip surface or treads on steps and the porch
  • A place to sit and set down bags near the door
  • House number visible from the street for emergency responders
  • A key lockbox or a trusted neighbor with a key

Stairs and hallways

  • Railings on both sides, running the full length of the stairs
  • Light switches at the top and bottom of every staircase
  • No loose rugs, cords or clutter on stairs or in hallways
  • Night lights from the bedroom to the bathroom
  • Contrasting tape on step edges if depth is hard to see

Living room

  • Clear walking paths around furniture
  • Loose throw rugs removed or secured
  • Cords run along walls, not across walkways
  • Chairs with arms and a firm seat height that is easy to stand from
  • Lamps reachable without walking into a dark room

Kitchen

  • Everyday dishes and food moved to waist-to-shoulder height
  • No step stools needed for daily items
  • A working smoke alarm nearby and a small fire extinguisher the person can use
  • Stove knobs clearly marked; consider an automatic stove shut-off if memory is a concern
  • Expired food and old medications cleared out

Bathroom

  • Grab bars by the toilet and in the tub or shower (towel bars are not grab bars)
  • Non-slip mat or strips in the tub or shower
  • A shower chair and handheld shower head if standing is tiring
  • A raised toilet seat if needed
  • Water heater set to a safe temperature to prevent scalds
  • A night light, and a door that can be opened from outside in an emergency

Bedroom

  • A lamp or touch light reachable from bed
  • A clear path from bed to bathroom
  • Bed height that allows feet flat on the floor when sitting
  • A phone or medical alert button within reach of the bed
  • Clothes and shoes stored where they can be reached without bending or climbing

Basement and laundry

  • Railings and good lighting on basement stairs
  • If possible, move laundry to the main floor so basement trips are not daily
  • Furnace and water heater serviced, with a carbon monoxide alarm nearby
  • Nothing heavy carried on the stairs

Medications and emergencies

  • A current medication list on the fridge and in a phone
  • Pill organizer or pharmacy blister packs
  • Emergency contacts posted by the phone
  • A medical alert device or a daily check-in routine if your parent lives alone
  • Smoke alarms on every level and CO alarms near sleeping areas, tested regularly

Western New York winter checklist

Buffalo-area winters add risks that a summer walkthrough can miss. Before the first storm:

  • Book snow removal for the driveway and walks before the first storm, with a backup if the plow service is late
  • Keep ice melt and a scoop by each door; never ask a parent to shovel heavy snow
  • Have the furnace serviced in the fall and keep vents clear of snow
  • Test CO alarms; never run a generator, grill or car in a garage or near windows
  • Plan for power outages: flashlights, extra batteries, charged phone, blankets, and a warm place to go
  • Keep a week of medications and easy food on hand during storm season
  • Agree on who checks in during a storm and how (call, text, or visit)
  • If someone relies on powered medical equipment, ask the utility and the equipment supplier about a backup plan
  • Sign up for local weather alerts from National Weather Service Buffalo

Local help in Erie and Niagara counties

If you want help turning this list into a plan, HOMEWARD's home safety planning and home modification planning start with a visit to the home. If the list shows that home is no longer safe, Cardinal Care Advisors can help compare assisted living options.

Common questions

What is the most important home safety change for seniors?

For most families it is preventing falls: grab bars in the bathroom, railings on both sides of stairs, good lighting, and removing loose rugs and clutter from walkways.

How often should we review home safety?

At least once a year, and again after any fall, hospital stay, new diagnosis, or change in medications or mobility.

Who can help with home modifications in Erie or Niagara County?

NY Connects and your county Office for the Aging can point you to local programs. A home safety review or occupational therapy evaluation can also identify what to change first.

Want a second set of eyes on the house?

Start with the free HOMEWARD Snapshot or a 15-minute call, and we'll talk through what you found.